While my dad and I are working on the bedroom, my mom has been watching Dylan. This is a practice run for when we move here--my mom will watch Dylan while I work (the #1 advantage to telecommuting!).
I love to observe them together and to hear their activities as part of my background. This week, my mom has been harvesting peas; and it's a bumper crop this year. They head down to the garden to harvest. Dylan just likes to pick anything, but my mom is patient and lets him do his own thing. Once the bucket is full, it's back to the house for shelling. Dylan discovered the sweetness that is freshly picked peas, and even figured out how to wrestle the little buggers out of their pods.
I am a single mom to one loving, energetic little boy. My goal is to instill a sense of wonder, a love of nature, and an adventurous spirit in this little person. These are my ramblings.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Thursday, July 22, 2010
DadaMama
Dylan speaks his own language. He invents words--some are based on the sounds from an actual word (like "ga" for "sock"), and some are completely Dylanisms (like "chick-a-wawa", which is anything that hurts). Most of the words he uses, I don't bother to correct, yet, but I use the right word.
For example, "baba" is water, or any liquid. Could be in a cup, the rain coming down, or filling up the pool. If he points and says, "Baba!", I respond with something along the lines of, "Yes, that water is rain. It's raining. This water is called rain." The one word we've kept is chickawawa; because it sounds so cool and because there really isn't a good replacement word in English except maybe "owie", which isn't nearly as cool as chickawawa.
The really cool thing about using chickawawa is that I can use it to warn Dylan not to touch something. Like today, I explained that he can pet Figaro, but petting Midnight will result in a chickawawa. He won't go near Midnight, now.
The set of words that Dylan has had the most trouble with are relationship words; mom, dad, grandpa, and grandma specifically. When he finally mastered mom ("mama"), everyone he loved was "mama". Next, he conquired grandpa ("dada"). Then, came "dahdee", which is reserved for his own papa. But, during this development, neither of his granmothers were around. So, when we came to visit Boise, and he once again found himself spending large amounts of time with my mom, he didn't know what to call her. He tried on "mama", but that wasn't working because I would respond. He tried on "dada", but that didn't work out for him, either. Finally, he settled on "dadamama", signifying that grandma is a bit of mom and a bit of grandpa all rolled into one.
Here he is painting dadamama's fingernails.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
The Quiet Against the Loud
Today, we couldn't play in the pool because someone--a racoon, a cat, a dog, who knows?--popped it over night. So, I set up the sprinklers and we ran through them until we were soaked clean through. In a world where even everyday motions can become a festival of joy, running through the sprinklers is a serious adrenaline rush! And, not just for the boy, either. Being around that kind of enthusiasm is completely contagious.
At first, Dylan was scared of the feathery puffs (the strangest things set him on edge), but he was happy to watch me blowing the little parachutes out of my fingers; "more!". Finally, he tried it himself, but couldn't get the hang of letting go with his fingers as he blew the gust of wind to set it in motion. So, I held each one for him and we spent 10 minutes just blowing and waving goodbye. Ah...the quiet moments are here, too!
Monday, July 19, 2010
Country Images
It's great to be back up the mountain with my parents. Even inside, I can hear the birds chirping. Away from the city, the stars are big and bright and they cover the night sky like a blanket.
Helping Hands
This morning, my dad and I were tearing apart the dormer space, and Grandma was sitting with Dylan in the bedroom. Dylan got out his little screwdriver and "fixed" the buffet that is sitting in the middle of the room while I pried nails out of the boards. Every few minutes, he puckered up and ran towards me for a kiss.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Amicable?
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Main Entry: am·i·ca·ble
Pronunciation: \ˈa-mi-kə-bəl\
Function: adjective
: characterized by friendly goodwill : peaceable
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An amicable divorce - also known as uncontested. The reality is that it's neither amicable nor uncontested in anything but a legal definition. If it were, there would be no point in going through with it. It's the contentious nature of our relationship that brought it to a new beginning, gave it a new label.
First we were friends, then lovers, then partners, then spouses. Then we began the journey of unwinding that relationship...no longer partners...no longer friends...no longer lovers. Just one step left and we're done. The new label is "parents". We will be co-parenting.
Main Entry: am·i·ca·ble
Pronunciation: \ˈa-mi-kə-bəl\
Function: adjective
: characterized by friendly goodwill : peaceable
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
An amicable divorce - also known as uncontested. The reality is that it's neither amicable nor uncontested in anything but a legal definition. If it were, there would be no point in going through with it. It's the contentious nature of our relationship that brought it to a new beginning, gave it a new label.
First we were friends, then lovers, then partners, then spouses. Then we began the journey of unwinding that relationship...no longer partners...no longer friends...no longer lovers. Just one step left and we're done. The new label is "parents". We will be co-parenting.
Just Kick It!
Adventure has taken on a whole new meaning. It used to mean a ticket, a backpack, and messload of first-time experiences. My first time experiences. Now that I have this little creature who is working on becoming a bonefide person, first time experiences belong to Dylan. My special right of passage is to be present in the awe and joy that he feels.
Tonight, Dylan learned to kick a ball. He ran up and down the parking lot, skooting that ball in front of him like a soccer champ! He's kicked a ball before, but usually it's not on purpose and resembles Charlie Chaplin trying to pick up his derby. Great for a good chuckle on a slow day! He was so proud of himself. Grandpa and I cheered for him every time he made contact.
Tonight, Dylan learned to kick a ball. He ran up and down the parking lot, skooting that ball in front of him like a soccer champ! He's kicked a ball before, but usually it's not on purpose and resembles Charlie Chaplin trying to pick up his derby. Great for a good chuckle on a slow day! He was so proud of himself. Grandpa and I cheered for him every time he made contact.
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